in response to Sheleigh... I understand your plight, I'm in the same boat as you...seeing as we are ex's. It's not easy living this close together and trying to walk the "good" walk,but with God EVERYTHING is 'possible' ! All we can do is try to live right and hopefully we'll remain friends through it all by the grace of God.You've been a big help in my life, and I'd like that to continue as we go through this journey.You are a loving compassionate friend and I value your friendship immensely.I couldn't ask for a better friend on this earth,you are trusting, honest, compassionate,loving, andGod-fearing.